Someone said dislike is a disease of mind

I read somewhere.
Some famous guru or Buddah's word.

Dislike is a disease of mind.
When I first read that, I was shocked, and thought
what an amazing quote.

If each of us don't have dislikes,
then World is at Peace.

Then today, I thought.
What about individuality?
We are all born with special characteristics, which makes YOU,
at least in this dimension, time and realm.

For instance, I am very free spirited, open mind person.
I totally dislike pre-scheduled chores and events.
I like to do how I feel to do it, at that moment.
I believed people each should do what they feel to do moment by moment
like wild animals.

But then, someone like my husband, or many of my friends says that is bad behavior.
They said that type of thoughts will bring chaos into this World.
People should behave and follow rules.

I came to conclusion.
Long as you don't hurt people, it should be okay to do what you want to do.
But then, my husband will say, you can't live alone.  So you need to corporate.
That's right.
So if you leave in harmony.  You still can be yourself.
Don't judge others, even they are different.
So you don't have to dislike them, just accept and be okay with it.
So things I don't like to do, just accept the fact that, sometimes there are things you don't like.
Wait a minuets.
I still do have dislikes!!  LOL